My children are both at university now – but out of sight doesn’t mean out of mind. Far from it. The fact that I don’t see them every day makes me worry even more.
I was thrilled, though, when my 18 year old son phoned at 10pm last night. Except it wasn’t for a chat. It was to say that he was on a
train from Manchester to South Wales after a weekend catching up with old pals and
the train had been severely delayed because of the weather. He’d
just clocked that his train was due to terminate at Newport - at midnight, 50
miles from where he needed to be and with no more trains till dawn.
To make matters worse, his credit card had been nicked a few
days earlier, he only had £10 on him and his phone was
about to run out of battery.
“We’re stuck at Shrewsbury,” he said. “And I don’t want
to waste my battery so I’m switching my phone off now.”
Before I could reply, he rang off.
At midnight, with no news, I rang Newport railway station.
But the place had shut up shop for the night. Next, I called a taxi firm close by.
“Don’t worry,” said a cheery voice at Dragon Taxis when he
heard the sorry tale. “I’ll go and find out. What does he look like?
I’ll see if he’s there.”
How kind was that? The man came back ten minutes later and
said my son wasn’t there. But he’d asked the rail staff and in fact the train
had travelled on to Cardiff. After that, they’d said, Arriva Trains were laying on taxis (free of charge) to take stranded passengers home. And sure
enough, when I finally spoke to my son at 3am, that’s exactly what had
happened.
So, all I can say is: A big thank you to the wonderful Dragon
Taxis of Newport. Talk about going that extra mile...
PS. I've just realised it's exactly a month till Christmas. Help!
PPS. The kindness of strangers Part 1 is here.
PPS. The kindness of strangers Part 1 is here.
Yes, very nice taxi firm. However, having two children who have both just left University this year, and having experienced several times very similar stresses (funnily enough usually with my son, not my daughter, a fact on which I could reflect further although I do love him dearly), I suggest this:
ReplyDeleteamong his Christmas pressies include an emergency phone charger powered by light. If you buy one which hangs off his keyring you have a little more chance he might actually have it with him when he needs it(!);
also open an extra account for him at the same bank you have so that if he needs emergency money you can instantly transfer via your laptop. Yes, that will require a bank card though. You can buy 'emergency capsules' to accommodate rolled up tenners or twenties which, once again, you can hang off a keyring, but in my experience these do not wait for what mothers consider emergencies.
In truth we probably underwent similar experiences at their age. The difference is that now they are able, via technology, to inform anxious parents of their temporary distresses. Heigh-ho.
Tricia, thank you SO much. That is brilliant advice - especially the emergency phone charger. I'm going to order one now! He did start off with enough money, but he lent some to a friend, leaving himself with just a ten pound note! And yes, we probably did similar things, but our parents didn't know!!
DeleteI think most people are basically very kind. My kids have been bailed out by 'nice' people too. But doesn't it warm one's heart when it happens. Bring on the good news stories!
ReplyDeleteI agree, Catherine. More good new stories needed all round!
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